Sex Insufficient for Sense-of-Duty

"I don't owe you anything. If anything, you also enjoyed the sex; I used you and you used me."

Consider the attitude. Any goodwill earned by sex is easy to claw back when need arises, when you find yourselves at odds. Happens a lot with casual sex hook-ups... Whatever felt connection is established with a person by reason of sex activity and sustained by sex alone is very easy to betray, very vulnerable to betrayal. Connection by sex activity alone does not guarantee any loyalty; worse yet, it often produces a fake sensation of expected loyalty. A durable sense-of-duty between people does not arise from sex activity alone, however aesthetically compelling the activity, however good the sex.

• TNC / Sense of Duty

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• Topic / Sexual Practice, Erotics

• Topic / Care, Duty, and Pretension